Dear ladies, it’s a hard truth to face. Despite the hours of research, planning and pinning you will undoubtedly put into your wedding day preparations, chances are your main man won’t be quite as meticulous.
But it’s totally ok. You know he’s just as excited as you are, it’s just that hydrangeas probably aren’t even on his radar.
And to the future grooms, we know this whole planning business isn't always a walk in the park. To help you out, we’ve got advice from some of our past Arkansas Real Wedding grooms for all you fetching fellows about to tie the knot.
From the practical to the personal, this is sage, solid, sound words of wisdom, guys. Take it from groom to another. And who knows? You might just benefit from them as a couple, too.
Enjoy, lovebirds.
Danny Harrington:
Don't let the blessing become a burden. Your wedding day will be the happiest day of your life; I know mine was. Help your future bride in any way that you can, even if that is with a word of affirmation or a simple “yes” or “no” when she asks for your opinion on things.
Click here to see more from the Harrington wedding.
Adam Bennett:
One thing people constantly told us that brought us comfort was that at the end of the day, no matter how the decorations looked or how the music played, we would be married and that’s what it was all about. That advice helped us enjoy the process instead of stressing.
Click here to see more from the Bennett wedding.
Chris Rittelmeyer:
Your fiancée is going to ask you a million questions, many of which are things you might not normally care about, such as table cloths, up-lighting and flowers. My advice is to be patient and give her your honest opinion. At the end of the day, she may not agree with your opinion, but it’s important to show her that you care. If there are things you feel strongly about, make it a point to voice those in the beginning so you both get what you want.
Click here to see more from the Rittelmeyer wedding.
Zach Noonan:
Sit back and try to enjoy it… And get a sweet suit.
We must admit, that is a pretty sweet suit. Click here to see more from the Noonan wedding.
Rotnei Clarke:
As a future husband and leader of the relationship, always try to be the calming force behind your bride. Take the time to invest in each other throughout the wedding planning process by having conversations separate from the wedding. Keep in mind it’s not only about the wedding day, but the rest of your life with your bride.
Click here to see more from the Clarke wedding.
Cornelius Boone:
Do your best to slow down and enjoy the engagement as well as the wedding day because it all goes by so fast. Remind your bride to do the same.
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Daniel Grinnan:
Expect the unexpected, plan ahead and if you’re wearing your own tux, remember your studs, because I definitely forgot mine and we were scrambling to find some before leaving to go take pictures before the ceremony.
Click here to see more from the Grinnan wedding.
Ryan Smith:
Live in the moment and savor every step of the process with your beautiful bride, gentlemen. Escape the wedding talk from time to time to simply relax and enjoy being with your fiancée. Enjoy that date night out on the town, a weekend getaway, or quiet night at home on the couch with each other. This is an amazing time in your lives together. Soak it all in.
