We were recently sent this video from a surprise engagement/wedding. The bride seems genuinely excited and happy about it, but I'm not sure I buy it.

I think you know that I wouldn't say yes to a surprise wedding. No way, no how. What unerves me about this is that he stole the wedding planning experience away from her - something she might have been dreaming of her whole life. (Probably not based on the fact that he felt confident this was a good idea in the first place, but still...)

And when she casually suggested paper laterns over coffee to her boyfriend, she didn't know he was going to hold her to that. She may have felt differently about those paper balls when she actually started planning for real. But she never got the chance. And again, she looked elated during the whole thing. 

So, you know where I stand, but how about you? Would you be thrilled if your fiance/boyfriend secretly planned your wedding without you? 

Watch the video and comment below!

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