You’ve probably already checked out our “10 Things to Do as Soon as You Get Engaged.” But if you aren’t quite engaged yet, we love the tips SHEfinds shares on what you should do before he pops the question.

1. Get a manicure. This is probably pretty obvious, but you don’t want people asking to look at your ring and end up staring at your chipped polish and overgrown cuticles.

2. Pick out the perfect outfit. While this may not be the easiest thing on the list, your go-to LBD (little black dress) and some cute pumps will have you looking and feeling your best for the entire night.

3. Get a spray tan or facial. In addition to feeling your best in your perfect outfit, you want to look your best, too. Is your skin breaking out? Do an at-home facial or stop by your local spa. Feeling pasty? While you’re at the spa, get a light spray tan to ensure that you have a glow, and most of all, no streaks.

4. Don’t tell anyone. We realize you’re beyond excited, but just to be on the safe side, wait until after he proposes to tell your mom, your best friend, your sorority sisters, and the rest of the world!

5. Bring your smart phone. You’re going to want to take lots of pictures to remember this night (and to show off your new bling), so make sure your phone is charged and ready. I keep my digital camera in my purse at all times in case a moment pops up that I feel the need to capture, so make sure it’s charged and has a vacant memory card as well.

 6. Play it cool. Ladies, he’s put a lot of thought and effort into mapping out every single minute of the proposal night, don’t spoil it for him by letting him feel like you know what he’s up to.

7. Don’t pick a fight or be impatient. He may not propose within the first five minutes of picking you up. So take it easy and enjoy the time with your man.

8. Don’t drink too much. If you’re going to drink at all, have a glass with dinner. Don’t continue to drink so much that you won’t even remember the night.

9. Relax and enjoy! Don’t be nervous. You knew this day was coming and it’s one of the most exciting nights of your life! Have fun!

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